Buying for a Woman
Secrets of giving her the jewelry of her dreams.
Buying jewelry for a woman seems mysterious and often intimidating. In the interest of all those who receive gifts that elicit a certain puzzled, even exasperated response, we offer a few guidelines. Or, you can call us at 317-810-1665 to schedule your private appointment today.
First love her, then find out what she loves. She will always give you a clue. Listen carefully.
1. Give her what she loves.
The most common mistake a man can make is focusing on what you like, rather than the purpose of a jewel: to adorn a woman as an extension of her personality. Once you realize this, you’ll stop considering pieces you’d like to see her wear and start choosing jewelry that enhances her style, her body, her beauty. Watch her shop. When her eyes sparkle or she is excited just talking about a piece, it’s the one you’ll want to buy.
2. Notice what she likes to wear most.
Look in her jewelry box. Does she have more yellow gold, white gold or silver? What does she already own? Think about whether you can envision her wearing what you’re thinking of giving her and cater to her unique tastes and sense of style.
3. Listen to her hints.
Most women know exactly what they like and aren’t afraid to let you know about it. If she says she likes white gold or she doesn’t like pearls, she’s giving you that “elusive” clue. If she says she likes large gemstones, then give her something big, or designed to give the illusion. If she admires a large diamond, then tells you she’d never wear it – heed her desires and tone her diamond down a little. If she finds meaning in history or a shared experience, give her something with sentimental value. It’s as easy as that.
4. Consider your motives.
Do you want to make her feel special? A just-because gift that is meaningful to her can make or break a relationship. Are you giving her jewelry as an apology? Gift giving is supposed to be joyous and generous, even if it’s meant to say I’m sorry, so make it feel that way for her. Do you really love her and want her to know it? Certain pieces can trigger specific responses from her. A piece made from gemstones and precious metals is a serious symbol of commitment, yet a ring box usually means only one thing for a woman – a marriage proposal. Do you think she’s the girl for you? Create a one-of-a-kind custom designed engagement ring that’s meant only for her.
3. Listen to her hints.
Most women know exactly what they like and aren’t afraid to let you know about it. If she says she likes white gold or she doesn’t like pearls, she’s giving you that “elusive” clue. If she says she likes large gemstones, then give her something big, or designed to give the illusion. If she admires a large diamond, then tells you she’d never wear it – heed her desires and tone her diamond down a little. If she finds meaning in history or a shared experience, give her something with sentimental value. It’s as easy as that.
4. Consider your motives.
Do you want to make her feel special? A just-because gift that is meaningful to her can make or break a relationship. Are you giving her jewelry as an apology? Gift giving is supposed to be joyous and generous, even if it’s meant to say I’m sorry, so make it feel that way for her. Do you really love her and want her to know it? Certain pieces can trigger specific responses from her. A piece made from gemstones and precious metals is a serious symbol of commitment, yet a ring box usually means only one thing for a woman – a marriage proposal. Do you think she’s the girl for you? Create a one-of-a-kind custom designed engagement ring that’s meant only for her.
5. Give her something she can wear every day.
Even if you gravitate toward trendy bling, remember, women tend to appreciate the elegant basics. Diamond hoops, stack rings, a personal charm on a long chain. Plus, she’ll be reminded of you every day that she wears it.
6. Give her a reason to brag – about you.
Gifting her a piece designed by one of her favorite jewelers-of-the-moment gives her a reason to tell all her friends about it. Giving her a diamond ring that you’ve designed yourself with the help of a private jeweler is like the ultimate brag: she can say, “Thanks. He designed it himself.” Hello!
7. Let her choose the jewelry herself.
Take your time and keep in mind who she is, how you feel about her and where you want your relationship to go. Taking these three things into consideration, ask us about our Custom Design Gift Experience. It always does the trick.
